Dating & Relationship Coaching with Nicole Colantoni

Unlearn what love isn’t so you can finally experience what love is

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You don’t have to settle for love that’s confusing, unstable, or almost right.

The kind of connection you want is possible—and it starts right here, with you.

You’re In The Right Place

Especially if the usual advice hasn’t worked

If you’ve landed here, you’ve probably already done the work you thought would help. You’ve journaled. Reflected. Gone to therapy. You know your patterns, but still find yourself stuck in them. That’s not a flaw in you, it’s a sign something deeper needs care.

This is where we do that work, so you can leave your current version of love behind for good.

You’ll know this is your next right step if:

You’re scared that if something doesn’t change, you’ll end up alone—or settling

You’re in a relationship that feels confusing, disconnected, or like it takes more than it gives

You’ve done the work, but still find yourself choosing the same kind of partners (the wrong kind)

You want love that feels steady, mutual, and secure—but have no idea how to get there

Who I Coach

Support for every stage, status, and “what now?”

Singles Who Want Something Better

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You’re burnt out on dating, but not ready to give up.

Together, we’ll figure out what’s keeping you stuck, and help you date from a place of clarity and self-trust.

Singles Overcoming Heartbreak

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You’re stuck on a heartbreak that still lingers—and you’re not sure how to move through it.

We’ll unpack what’s keeping you stuck, help you reconnect with yourself, and make a plan to gently move forward.

Individuals In Relationships That Feel Off

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When you’re not sure if you should leave, stay, or speak up—I help you get clear.

We’ll look at what’s driving your dynamic, so you can feel more fulfilled in yourself and your relationship.

Couples Looking To Reconnect

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You still care about each other, but something’s missing.

We’ll work together to rebuild connection, safety, and understanding—so you can find your way back to feeling like a team.

The love you want exists.

You wouldn’t desire it if it didn’t

Whatever version of love you’re holding in your heart—the quiet kind, the fiery kind, the one where you feel chosen without performing—it’s not too much. And it’s not out of reach. Your desire is a preview of what’s possible. This is where we make it real.

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Single, Partnered, In-Between

I meet you where you are

Whether you’re dating, healing, or trying to make it work—this space is built for you. Through 1:1 coaching, we’ll get curious about what’s driving your patterns, reconnect you to your worth, and start building a love that actually feels good to be in.

You enquire via email and share a bit about what’s going on
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From there, you can decide how you’d like to continue our work
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You’ll be supported with clarity, compassion, and strategies to help you show up differently in love
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You book your first 60-minute session (held via Zoom)
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Packages are tailored to your goals, pace, and current situation
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“What Exactly Is A Dating And Relationship Coach?”

And how can I help you rewrite your love story?

If you’ve never worked with a dating and relationship coach, it’s normal to wonder what I do and how I do it. To be clear, I’m not a therapist, but this work will ask you to go inward. We’ll unpack your patterns, explore where they came from, and shift how you show up in love so it starts to feel different—less anxious, more secure.

My approach is trauma-informed and attachment-based, meaning we look at your early experiences, how they shaped your sense of security, and how those old beliefs might still be influencing your relationships today.

You’ll get practical tools, real-time coaching, and a space to feel seen, supported, and challenged. Some clients come to me unsure if they’re ready to date again. Others are in the thick of a breakup, navigating a relationship, or just tired of feeling stuck. No matter where you’re starting, we meet there and build forward from it.

I’ll be here to guide, support, and challenge you, but the real change happens when you show up for yourself. I’m all in on your relationship goals, but they can only become a reality when you are, too. The love you want begins with the work you commit to.

If now’s the time...

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Love Shouldn’t Have To Be Figured Out By Trial And Error

There’s a better way (and you just found it)

You’ve spent enough time trying to solve love through half-read books, late-night spirals, social media tips, and well-meaning advice that never quite sticks. It’s exhausting—and it makes sense if you’re tired. This work gives you a different way in. A safe space to be heard, feel seen, and do the kind of supported work that leads somewhere new.

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