learn how to attract and build healthy relationships.

guiding individuals and couples globally to transcend their attachment trauma and build secure relationships.

BREAK UNHEALTHY PATTERNS - HEAL ATTACHMENT WOUNDS - REWIRE YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM

POPSUGAR Australia’s dating & relationship columnist as well as the host of the acclaimed podcast Love Uncensored: The Modern Guide to Dating & Relationships.

meet Nicole

YOUR MODERN TRAUMA-INFORMED DATING & RELATIONSHIP COACH

Never before have we been more connected, yet never before has it been so difficult to attract long-term partners or sustain healthy and happy relationships.

Dating has changed, and it's not easy to find real love in today's fast-paced swipe right culture. With dating apps and societal pressure to settle down, it's tough to navigate the search for meaningful connections and all too easy to settle for less than what we truly deserve in a relationship.

Everyone is in search of a perfect partner, but few people are willing to do the work to be a perfect partner in return.

Meet Nicole

If you keep finding yourself in the same toxic cycles within your romantic partnerships, you’re likely running on your past conditioning and choosing partners from your wounds, rather than a place of worth and self-love.

Our beliefs about love and relationships can often be traced back to our childhood experiences and family dynamics. Maybe you saw constant fighting in your parents' relationship, or you experienced abuse or neglect from those closest to you.

Whatever your story, these early experiences shape the way we view and pursue love as adults.

You may have fallen into patterns of chasing unavailable partners, jumping into relationships too quickly, or sacrificing your own needs for the sake of being in a relationship.

Before we can truly experience happier & healthier relationships with other people, we need to change our patterns - and the relationship we have with ourselves.

It’s never too late to start.

work with nicole

Singles & dating coaching

1:1 coaching to develop and nurture the relationship you have with yourself, and to navigate the complex world of modern dating.

relationship coaching

1:1 coaching to attract, navigate, and maintain healthy relationships without compromising who you are.

couples coaching

Coaching couples of every age, stage, sexual orientation, and gender identity to navigate the intricacies of love and commitment.

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Success

Stories

Success Stories

Stephanie

Nicole’s coaching helped me recognise that I was settling in my relationship and gave me the courage to walk away.

Matt

Always great communication between me and Nicole. Helps me understand where I'm coming from and helps me understand my needs and shortcomings!

Milo

Very good first session. Recommend if your looking for growth and renewal.

Penelope

Nicole is a great listener and very kind. I feel very comfortable sharing my thoughts and experiences with her. She gives thoughtful feedback and is very non-judgmental in her approach.

Melissa

I always have a lot to share and Nicole is so patient and kind in response. Her words are very reassuring and she has a very calming, lovely energy.

Martin

Nicole is so compassionate and understanding.

Adria

I always feel that Nicole hears and understands me. She's very open-minded and kind.

Olga

Nicole's insightfulness, advice as well as her caring and approachable nature showed me that self-love is needed to be successful in finding love.

Rhiannon

Nicole is inquisitive, wise, patient, empathetic, and while also holding strong boundaries, maintaining a clear vision which is mirrored off of what I’m expressing. She offers guidance, questions, let’s me unpack and then puts all that into an action step.

Amanda

I’ve worked with a lot of professionals on how to improve my romantic relationships as well as my relationship with my family and Nicole is the first person to make me feel safe, heard, and understood. I could not recommend her more.

Brian

She’s really easy to talk to and I’m looking forward to challenging/putting in the work with her! She seems like she’s really going to challenge me.

Kara

Nicole is such a good listener and very compassionate. Talking with her has been amazing. I have seen progress in terms of my confidence and with setting boundaries already.

Kylie

Nicole is so warm and helpful!!

Set Jin

Nicole always provides so much clarity. I always feel better after our conversations.

Ingrid

Nicole helped me communicate my needs to my partner better and recognise my unhealthy relationship habits.

Hannah

I wouldn’t be in the healthy and happy relationship I am in now without Nicole’s help. The work I’ve done with Nicole has been life-changing.

Miranda

Nicole helped me realise I was dating for the wrong reasons and that I didn’t need a partner to feel fulfilled or validated.

the PODCAST

Love Uncensored: The Modern Guide to Dating & Relationships

Together with special guests who aren’t afraid to speak their minds, we explore and challenge norms and expectations when it comes to life, love, and relationships. From childhood trauma to sex, we explore and publicy air the uncomfortable and the unspoken.

Listen to the podcast