Do you need help navigating the complex world of modern love?

NICOLE COLANTONI: trauma-informed dating & RELATIONSHIP COACH

Empowering men, women, and couples globally to break unhealthy patterns, heal attachment wounds and nervous system dysregulation, and build secure relationships from the inside out.

Whether you’re single & exhausted from always attracting the wrong type of partner, going through heartbreak, or need help navigating dating or overcoming issues like codependency, infidelity, complacency, poor communication, or lack of intimacy with your partner - I’m here to help.

Here’s how it works.

  • SOMEONE WHO GETS IT

    After being single for nine years - you’re working with someone who really gets it. I believe in speaking the truth and cutting through the BS, so that you can make meaningful change, fast.

  • AN INSIDE-OUT APPROACH

    Together, we explore your past history and start to identify the mindset and behavioural patterns you developed in childhood, and how these are impacting your current experiences in dating and relationships.

  • THE DEEP DIVE

    Once we’ve identified your unique patterns, we'll explore what they’re trying to teach you and how you can break free from them. The goal is to help you develop the self-awareness, confidence and communication skills needed so you can truly experience healthy relationships built on mutual respect, trust and intimacy.

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Success

Stories

Success Stories
Stephanie

Nicole’s coaching helped me recognise that I was settling in my relationship and gave me the courage to walk away.

Matt

Always great communication between me and Nicole. Helps me understand where I'm coming from and helps me understand my needs and shortcomings!

Milo

Very good first session. Recommend if your looking for growth and renewal.

Penelope

Nicole is a great listener and very kind. I feel very comfortable sharing my thoughts and experiences with her. She gives thoughtful feedback and is very non-judgmental in her approach.

Melissa

I always have a lot to share and Nicole is so patient and kind in response. Her words are very reassuring and she has a very calming, lovely energy.

Martin

Nicole is so compassionate and understanding.

Adria

I always feel that Nicole hears and understands me. She's very open-minded and kind.

Olga

Nicole's insightfulness, advice as well as her caring and approachable nature showed me that self-love is needed to be successful in finding love.

Rhiannon

Nicole is inquisitive, wise, patient, empathetic, and while also holding strong boundaries, maintaining a clear vision which is mirrored off of what I’m expressing. She offers guidance, questions, let’s me unpack and then puts all that into an action step.

Amanda

I’ve worked with a lot of professionals on how to improve my romantic relationships as well as my relationship with my family and Nicole is the first person to make me feel safe, heard, and understood. I could not recommend her more.

Brian

She’s really easy to talk to and I’m looking forward to challenging/putting in the work with her! She seems like she’s really going to challenge me.

Kara

Nicole is such a good listener and very compassionate. Talking with her has been amazing. I have seen progress in terms of my confidence and with setting boundaries already.

Kylie

Nicole is so warm and helpful!!

Set Jin

Nicole always provides so much clarity. I always feel better after our conversations.

Ingrid

Nicole helped me communicate my needs to my partner better and recognise my unhealthy relationship habits.

FAQs

  • How long is a piece of string? There are no quick fixes - this is deep inner work and it really is a journey. It takes as long as it takes, and it’s entirely up to you how much support and guidance you want from me on the way.

    A commitment to a minimum of twelve sessions is recommended in order to make significant and lasting changes as well as work through any beliefs and fears that may be holding you back from achieving your relationship goals.

  • All sessions are held online over Zoom.

  • The introductory session is $250.00.

    During this session, I assess your situation and provide a bespoke proposal that is uniquely tailored to meet your individual needs and desired outcomes. The price of each session thereafter will vary depending on the agreed objectives and requirements.

    Fees are to be paid in advance for the term of the agreement and monthly in advance thereafter. Fees quoted in AUD and include GST where applicable.

  • Sessions go for half an hour or an hour depending on your requirements.

  • 24 hours notice is required otherwise you will be charged for the full session.

  • As much background information about your relationship history and goals as you feel comfortable sharing.

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