MEET NICOLE

POPSUGAR Australia’s dating & relationship columnist as well as the host of the acclaimed podcast Love Uncensored: The Modern Guide to Dating & Relationships.

Guiding individuals
and couples globally to transcend their attachment trauma and build secure relationships from the inside out.

I know what it’s like to feel unlovable and cry yourself to sleep wondering if it’s too late to find love and start a family. It took me years of personal growth and healing to transform my own relationship patterns, but it's never too late to start.

By focusing on our inner selves and developing a positive mindset, we can create meaningful change in our love lives and receive the love and connection we deserve.

Now, as a relationship coach, I help others to transform their love lives by taking a holistic "inside-out" approach to self-care, dating, and relationships. I believe that by understanding and working on our unique patterns, we can learn the lessons needed to break free from them and create more secure relationships.

My mission: To help you navigate the complex landscape of modern love and dating and overcome your attachment trauma, ensuring that you not only attract your ideal partner but also build lasting, healthy, and secure relationships.

To change our relationships, we need to change our patterns.

The good news is, we have the power to change our relationship patterns. I know because I've been there. I grew up in a dysfunctional family and struggled to find healthy love in my own relationships. It took a lot of self-reflection and hard work to change my pattern of chasing toxic love, but it was worth it.


Tune into the podcast: Love Uncensored.

Nicole is the host and creator of the acclaimed podcast Love Uncensored: The Modern Guide to Dating and Relationships. Since its launch in late 2021, it has reached hundreds of thousands of people in over 150 countries and has ranked #1 in Australia for the How To All-Time Bestseller category.

In every episode we challenge the norms and expectations when it comes to life, love, and relationships, and feature interviews with special guests who aren't afraid to speak their minds. From childhood trauma to sex, we explore and publicly air the uncomfortable and the unspoken.

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Love is an inside job.

A strong relationship with yourself paves the way for happy and healthy connections.

By healing attachment wounds and addressing nervous system dysregulation, you not only cultivate a more secure bond with yourself but also set the foundation for fulfilling romantic relationships.

Upgrade yourself by making a commitment to overcome limiting beliefs, put a stop to repeating the same learned patterns of behaviour from childhood, and break generational toxic cycles. 

Ready for real change?

Say goodbye to repeating old patterns and hello to a love life that truly serves you.

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